Daily piano practice is now part of my schedule. As well as giving me great pleasure, it brings mental peace an escape from the world’s troubling news. However much I love my husband, my children and my most gorgeous grandchildren, the piano playing is my own little world.
My husband and I both share a passion for classical music. We go to concerts and opera whenever we can. As well as ENO and Covent Garden (ah, if only the cash was endless…) we have been to performances all over the world. Basically, wherever we travel, we try to experience opera and music. As to the piano, we love the intimacy of the Wigmore Hall, the enchantment of St Johns, Smith Square, and for bigger pieces the grandeur of the Royal Festival Hall. Chopin is undoubtedly my favourite composer, but I love many others, particularly Beethoven.
My father died at 72; my mother though still alive at 94, has severe dementia which developed over five years. I dread that I might inherit this so do everything to prevent it: for physical exercise, we maintain our large woodland garden, forever pruning, chopping, chipping and hauling logs for the wood-stove. We work up a sweat even though we are well tooled-up – three chainsaws in the shed. In summer I swim and in winter go to the gym to supplement this. I got a FitBit for Christmas. It buzzes to show ten-thousand steps by tea-time every day. I don’t understand how anyone can get fat!
For mental exercise, it’s reading, playing Contract Bridge, and learning new piano pieces by heart. Recent reports say that fresh mental challenges help to stave off dementia better than practicing skills which are already familiar. So the search is on for new skills to learn.
We both used to ski many weeks each winter working as ski guides for the Ski Club of Great Britain. More recently, we have done much long-distance travelling to wild and wonderful places. We want to see the world before the Insurance Companies tell us we are too decrepit. We still charter sailing yachts now and again. All the years I practiced as a doctor, my reading was mostly of the medical journals. Now that I no longer have that obligation, I like to read literature, especially thought-provoking fiction.